July 9

Motivation Intrinsic And Extrinsic

“I want to stay sober for my kids.”
“I just don’t want to end up back in jail.”
“I’m doing this because I want to feel alive again.”

👋 Hey there, welcome back to Mindful Recovery Hub, where real talk meets radical healing, I’ve walked alongside thousands of people in recovery, and I’ve learned something profound: the difference between those who maintain long-term sobriety and those who struggle isn’t willpower, it’s understanding what truly drives them.

Today, we’re diving into one of the most powerful forces behind every single decision you make in recovery: 💥 MOTIVATION. Not just any motivation, but the kind that sustains you through storms, celebrates with you in sunshine, and becomes an unshakeable part of who you are. Take a breath. You’re exactly where you need to be.

Close your eyes for a moment. Think about why you chose recovery. What was that first spark? Was it fear, love, pressure, or something deeper?

Your answer reveals everything about your intrinsic motivation recovery journey. But here’s what most people don’t realize: motivation isn’t just one thing; it’s a complex dance between what comes from within and what pulls us from outside.

Intrinsic motivation = motivation that comes from within you. It’s personal, emotional, value driven. You do something because it aligns with who you want to be.
🧠 Examples:

  • “I want to grow.”
  • “I want to feel whole again.”
  • “I want to live a purpose-centered life.”

Extrinsic motivation = motivation that comes from outside of you. Rewards, consequences, expectations.
🧠 Examples:

  • “I have to do this program to avoid jail.”
  • “My family will cut me off if I relapse.”
  • “I want my counselor to be proud of me.”

Both have value. One is more sustainable.
Let’s find out what’s fueling your fire.

📝 Interactive Quiz: What’s Driving Your Recovery Right Now?

Rate each statement 1–5:
(1 = Not true for me, 5 = Very true for me)

1. I’m in recovery because it’s something I truly want.
2. I feel more committed to recovery when I focus on how I’ll feel inside.
3. I’m mostly staying clean because of external pressures (court, family, etc.).
4. I want to grow into the kind of person I admire.
5. If I didn’t have consequences, I’m not sure I’d stay in recovery.
6. I feel most motivated when I’m aligned with my personal values.
7. I often need rewards or threats to keep me on track.
8. I feel proud of who I’m becoming—even if no one else notices
.

📊 Now, tally it up:

  • Total for odd-numbered questions = Extrinsic motivation
  • Total for even-numbered questions = Intrinsic motivation

🔹 Mostly Extrinsic Motivation?
You’re not alone. A lot of us start here and it’s okay. Controlled motivation patterns can keep us going in the early stages of recovery. But if you want long-term motivation maintenance, it’s worth exploring how to develop autonomous motivation that lasts beyond the program, the court date, or the family check-ins.

🔹 Mostly Intrinsic Motivation?
This is where identity-driven recovery lives. Where you’re motivated not just by the “what” but by the “why.” When your personal values alignment becomes your compass, you build something unshakable.

There will be days when your motivation tank feels empty. That’s why we need tools like:

  • Motivational interviewing techniques to explore your why
  • Self-efficacy development to believe in your ability
  • Competence-building strategies to celebrate progress
  • Recovery commitment strategies to keep showing up

And most of all: grace for when motivation dips. Because it will. But you are stronger than your lowest moment.

💡 1. Use Motivation Assessment Tools Weekly
Create a “motivation check-in” journal using your quiz answers above. Notice patterns. Adjust your support as needed.

💡 2. Shift from Fear to Purpose
Ask yourself: What am I moving toward, not just what am I avoiding?

💡 3. Create Goal-Oriented Recovery Planning
Break recovery into meaningful milestones. Celebrate not just sobriety but growth, reflection, connection.

💡 4. Connect to Relatedness in Recovery
Your motivation will soar when you feel seen. Join peer support, group therapy, or mentorship circles that let you be real, raw, and still loved.

💡 5. Make It Emotional
Your brain craves psychological need satisfaction, autonomy, competence, relatedness. Build these into your recovery for lasting change.

🧠 Reflection Prompt:
What motivates you today—and how has that changed since the start of your recovery?
💬 Share it in the comments (anonymously is okay!).

You might just remind someone else why they started.

Motivation isn’t magic. It’s movement.
It’s messy, human, and powerful.
It’s showing up even when it’s hard.

Whether you’re driven by inner purpose or outer pressure, you’re here, and that matters.
You don’t need perfect motivation.
You just need enough to take the next step.

And if no one has told you today…
💙 I’m proud of you.
Keep going.

With heart,
Dami- Recovery Coach @ Mindful Recovery Hub


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Addiction recovery, Mental health awareness, Mind matters


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